idu main site 6 steps to Happiness key notes

 

Idu – discover “i”, discover “u”

 

Who’s our target customers?

  1. people confused with their life. “whats the purpose of life?” “ why am I here?”
  2. kids going to college choosing their major – whats my major?
  3. kids graduating college entering their career path – whats my career? Whats my passion? Which career fits my personality/talent/strengths/weakness
  4. people who want to improve their mind, body, spirit for personal, career, relationship reasons.
  5. people who hates their life, wants change
  6. people who hates their jobs, want provocative and positive change

 

  1. people who is  confused about their love life- why aren’t they happy with their love life? Whats missing?
  2. people who wants to help, mentor, coach – people who already understands life

-this is a big grp- non-profit, schools, coaches etc

  1. people who needs help, who wants to be mentored, who needs qns answered.
  2. Network and collaborate with like-minded people on all of the above- people who understand the idu philosophy.
  3. people who likes our puppet shows, who likes our idugame, who likes our style and aesethics

 

12. people who want to use idu for dating by playing the idu game

13 people who likes the usefulness, aggregation and functionality and user-friendliness of our site such as email, search, wiki.

14 people who wants to win pts and prizes, who likes our gifts and store, and arts.

15.people who wants to impress their friends by growing their idu profile pts.

16. people who likes our unique viewpt of life, love and relationship- though similar to other empowerment sites, the idu view is still quite different –this is where the brand hijack happens- the users will attach their own perception, understanding and relation to the idu essence.

17. people who think our site is fun, cool, radical, entertaining – but this is only the outer wrap, the aesethic for the content, library, puppet shows.

 

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Library structure

 

1. Discover – a. personality    b. talents, strengths and weaknesses c. life purpose

2. Improve – mind, body, spirit

3. Passions – find that passion based on your attributes, life purpose

4. Pursue Success –a. career  b. entrepreneurial  c.Network and collaborate

5. Helping –a.mentor b. charity  c. collaborate

6        Love and Re-discovery – a.soulmate b. family  c. friends  d. co-workers  e.everyone

 

 

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What’s is IDU?

Idu represents the essence of “I”, the essence of self, and the essence of self in relationships with others.

 

Through discovering your talent and purpose in life, going after your goals and passion, constantly empowering and improving yourself for success, one finds happiness in life.

One further fulfills the essence of “self” and achieve true happiness by using your talent to help others . Although your views, your character, your personality, your purpose and talents all define you, Idu believes that by using your talent to help others, you truly rediscover yourself and your relationship with others and redefine the terms “love” and “happiness”.

 

BLURBS

 

The 6 step Idu Library –  Questions like “what’s life?”  Whats

happiness?” “Whats my purpose in life?” “why am I here?” are common for the confused. The Idu library aims to de-confuse you.

 

The purpose of life is to achieve happiness by using your talent to help others.

By using your talent to help others, you truly discover yourself and your love and  relationship with others, and truly fulfill your essence of self which leads to true happiness in life. That is because only by rediscovering who you truly are can you truly understand yourself and know what you are looking for  in relationship with others, such as friendships or romance, which  then lead to true love and happiness.

 

To find true love and happiness, you have to rediscover yourself.

To rediscover yourself, you have to help others with your talents.

To possess talents to help others, you have to find your talents and be successful in your talents.

To find your talent and be successful, you must first find your passion in life and love what you do.

To be successful in your  passion, you have to first analyze your current personality, character, strengths/weaknesses and constantly empower your mind, body and spirit toward success. 

 

So what does Idu want?

Idu want you to be a complete, empowered “I”,

Idu wants you to be successful in your passion

Idu wants you to be happy – by helping others with your talent which in turn leads to rediscovery of self, love and relationships

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1st Step – Discover

To discover your passion that fits you and be successful in your passion, you must first discover your current personality/character and analyze your strengths and weaknesses.

The crippled is the wizard!  To discover your passion and be successful in your wizardry,

you must first figure out your current personality/character and analyze your strengths and weaknesses.

 

  1. personality – discover the current u! Do u like it ? Or do u want change? Or are you surprised of who u are ?
  2. Strengths and weakness –  Don’t be surprised if your weakness is your strength!

Knowing your strengths and admitting your weakness is half the battle toward success.

  1. Life purpose – describe in one sentence what makes u happy in life. Every decision and thing u do in life will be guided towards this sentence.

 

 

 

 

2nd Step – Improve

 

Now that  u know your strengths and weaknesses, it is time to eliminate that weakness or bolster that strength by improving your mind, body and spirit.

Even a drunk orge can be knighted! Eliminate that weakness or bolster that strength by improving your mind, body and spirit.

 

 

  1. mind – improving your intellect, creativity, analytical ability, self confidence,  organizational and people/networking skills  ALL CONTRIBUTE TO problem solving, creative planning, winning friends easily and  strong management of time, money & relationships and rapid achievement of  goals in life.
  2. Body – staying physically fit and healthy not just make you appear better but also enhance your mind performance thru strong mind-body relationship, stress elimination and boost of confidence.
  3. Spirit -  Keep a happy spirit thru being creative, giving, being positive, open-minded, tolerant, compassionate, following your heart, pursuing love and goals freely, enjoying life and having gd laughs.  A happy spirit promotes a productive, strong, restless mind critical for success.

 

 

 

 

 

 

3rd step – Passion

It is easier to achieve success by doing what you love, not just what you are good at.

Find that passion and career path by looking at the improved you and analyzing your current strengths and weaknesses, personality and life purpose.

Loving what you do, and doing it well while fulfilling your life purpose is half way towards success and happiness.

Love what you do and do it well. It is easier to fish if your pet like sushi. It is easier to achieve success if u enjoy your passion and that passion fits you and your purpose. Even biting  finger nails has a place in history!

 

4th Step Pursue Success

 

Now that you found your passion, it is time to step up to the plate and be successful.

Constantly educate yourself, set goals, network and collaborate with others to advance your career and passion.

 

Even the Octopus trip over its own arms! Constantly educate yourself, set goals, network and collaborate with others to advance your career and passion.

 

 

 

a. career – educate and train yourself for the required skills for your dream job! Constantly re-educating yourself, pleasing your boss, working well in teams and co-workers, mastering strong communication and peoples skills, rising thru management ranks, setting specific goals and achieving them on time all contribute to success

 

b. entrepreneurial – what better way to test your limits and skills by starting your own company! You get the absolute freedom to form the company of your dream that matches your life purpose, life goals, your personality, your style and culture. And you get to hire the people you enjoy working with! There is no better way to achieve success ! Or failure! Running a company require lots of planning, dedication, sacrifice and peoples skills!  Enjoy the ups and downs u will always cherish and remember!

 

  1. Network and Collaborate – to achieve success you cant go it alone. You need to make new friends, contacts for help, advice, teamwork, planning and execution .

What great way to make new friends and meet new people with different background and cultures while working towards your success!

 

5th step Helping

 

Now that u achieve success, it is time to help others achieve similar success with your talent – the first golden step towards rediscovery of self and true happiness!

 

Be superman, be a bloodhound, be the Barbie doll you, Or just be a cookie monster.

Help other achieve similar success with your talent – the first step towards rediscovery of self and happiness! Find out that  you don’t just like eating cookies, but tic-tacs too

 

  1. mentor – what simpler way to give, help, spread love than giving advice based on your expertise and talent! Enjoy the gratification of feeling appreciated, respected and loved.
  2. Charity – there are more than one way to give, help lives and change the world.

Effort, money, fundraising events, raising awareness and even a few seconds of casting your support in an email are all totally powerful and life changing!

  1. Collaborate – what better way to meet like-minded people for friendship or love thru collaboration for helping people!

 

 

 

6th Step Love and Rediscovery

Helping others selflessly leads to rediscovery of self which in turn leads to redefining love and relationships with others! Embark on a new journey on how you view yourself, love and others ! Sail towards the light of true love and happiness!

 

So I am not super dog but  a fireman snoppy on skate boards?! And I actually like curdling with  tweety birds and not peacocks?  Helping others selflessly leads to rediscovery of self which in turn leads to redefining love and relationships with others! Embark on a new journey on how you view yourself, love and others

 

 a.soulmate  - a rediscovered u have a new view on love and what a soulmate means.

Is a soulmate just someone who is a gd companion doing/sharing things u love together? Or is it also about sharing the happiness and joy of helping others together hand-in-hand?  Be ready to be surprised.

 

 

 

 

 

 b. family – sharing love, joy , growth with your parents, brothers/sisters, children are what makes family cozy. But what happens when all members share the same views of  helping society in a selfless way? An interesting phenomenon and bond starts to happen….

 

 

 

  1. friends  - Fun, play, learn and sharing of  joys & sorrows  are all greatness of friendship.  What happens when friends help each other selflessly beyond the necessary?

 

  1. co-workers – It is  always fun working with people you like and  people with similar vales/culture. Painful it could be working with people you dislike with weird behaviors and different background/culture. Discover the hidden bond, however, when working together towards the common good in selfless ways. Mystery demystified!

 

  1. Strangers, Everyone – We are all different and unique with our own personalities, character, thinking, culture and backgound. And we are all the same pursuing that same happiness, love and success. And we are even more similar in discovering who we are when we help others selflessly.  We are different and we are one.Loving of all neighbors and all strangers complete the fulfilled you and reveals a new level of happiness.

 

 

 

 

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Idu LIBRARY INDEX

(the essence of the message behind each headline and “blurb”) 

DISCOVER: Talent

1.  Identify your skills

2.  Opportunities to improve skills

3.  Opportunities to showcase excellence

DISCOVER: Personality

1.  Identify your influences

2.  Analyze your attitude

3.  Recognize the impressions you are making

DISCOVER: Strengths & Weaknesses

1.  Identify your strengths

2.  Identify your weaknesses

3.  Evaluating, learning and profiting from your S&W

 

IMPROVE: Mind

1.  You are capable of anything

2.  Accelerated learning through modern methods

3.  The benefits of following/studying the herd

4.  Being good is cool

5.  The value of change

6.  Believing in the best brings out the best; trust applications

7.  Simplifying and prioritizing the things you want to master

8.  Tact and tone

9.  Avoid being bitter or envious

10.  The value of reading a lot

11.  The value of having strong, confident opinions; passionate clear communication

12.  Listening is captivating

13.  Balance and moderation

14.  The value of honesty and candor; boosting confidence and reputation

15.  Learning lots from obvious things

16.  The value of patience

17.  Visualizing goals to make them real

18.  Attitude influences mood and reality; being happy

19.  The value of discipline; motivation and maintaining; speed

20.  Harnessing your emotional intelligence; trusting instincts

21.  Letting go of your fears; eliminating doubt

22.  Avoiding negativity; letting go of the past; recognizing stereotypes

23.  Coping with difficult people

24.  Living life to the fullest; good starts; making each day count

25.  ALL BELOW ARE ADDED

26.  Feeling Secure; Confidence

27.  Commonalities; using them to your advantage

28.  Adapting; improvisation and compromise; making sacrifices; versatility

29.  Being reliable

IMPROVE: Body

1.  Posture and grace

2.  Eating whole foods

3.  Walking

4.  Routines and exercises

5.  Nutrition and health

6.  Fresh air

7.  Plenty of sleep

8.  Energy efficiency

9.  Drinking lots of water

10.  Avoiding stress

11.  Stretching and moving

12.  Avoiding junk food

IMPROVE: Spirit

1.  Acknowledging your previous “faith”

2.  Accessing and understanding spirituality; believing, recalling, envisioning & having faith in phenomena

3.  Respecting others’ spirituality; being open; flexibility

4.  Communication and dialogue; actively connect; expand horizons by reaching out

5.  Appreciating the equality in inequality

6.  Finding satisfaction frequently

7.  Perception is reality; bright sides and silver linings

8.  Spreading compliments; promoting positivity; sharing love

9.  Composure and limits to spreading spirituality; being accepting and unflappable; the step-by-step graduation; wise and careful pursuit

10.  Pushing yourself and your abilities; learning from yourself; addressing challenges and tasks and not shirking/fearing them

11.  Eliminating negativity

12.  Making time for yourself; indulging in food, sex & fun

13.  Finding purpose through spirituality; follow your heart

14.  Yoga and rituals

15.  Reading, meditation and inspiration; finding your muse

16.  Celebrating progress; cherish & relish moments

17.  Forgiving others

18.  Finding lasting forms of happiness

19.  ALL  BELOW ARE ADDED

20.  Give, donate, help, assist & ameliorate

21.  Relax, go w/ flow, trust in the unknown

22.  Laughter is the simplest cure

 

PASSION: Work

1.  Dabbling and Exposing Yourself

a.   Failing your way to success and using all of your talents

b.  Doing things for core values and not just money

c.   Making positive connections

d.  Saying yes to new opportunities

2.  Focusing and Filtering

a.   Figuring out your preferences

b.  Unleashing your boldest ambitions

c.   Anticipating obstacles

d.  Chemistry and harmony at work

PASSION: Play

1.  Dabbling and Exposing Yourself

a.   Exploring odd situations out of your natural element

b.  Identifying and trusting your instinctive tastes

c.   Recognizing the artist/creative person within

d.  Traveling for new experiences

2.  Focusing and Filtering

a.   Analyzing your favorite hobbies

b.  Factoring your schedule and free-time

c.   Expanding the things that are producing results

d.  Sharing your favorite things

 

SUCCESS: Job: Plan

1.  Branding yourself

2.  Preparing during a job hunt

3.  Appropriate attire for you

4.  Mastering the job hunt

5.  Interviewing

6.  Beginning with the end in mind

SUCCESS: Job: Connect

1.  Economy of words/conversation

2.  Radical networking

3.  Being honest about your motives and character; being authentic

4.  Being approachable

5.  Building experience and reputation

6.  Maintaining your character

7.  Being smooth and intimate

SUCCESS: Job: Advance

1.  Achieving popularity

2.  Becoming indispensable

3.  Focusing on wealth and goals

4.  Deepening emotional connections

5.  Premeditating needs and helping

6.  Inviting criticism

7.  Getting people to say “yes” to you

8.  Planning ahead

SUCCESS: Entrepreneurial: Plan

1.  Thinking differently

2.  Hooking people in underdeveloped areas

3.  Focusing on your one, big idea

4.  Pre-production and planning

SUCCESS: Entrepreneurial: Connect

1.  Recruiting your core team

2.  The right kind of pride in your work

3.  Convincing through skillful communicating; clarity

4.  Breeding leaders and reaping rewards

5.  Equality and friendship among co-workers

SUCCESS: Entrepreneurial: Advance

1.  Creating loyalty

2.  Honing leadership responsibilities

3.  Using high quality in everything you do

4.  Starting every encounter off on the right, positive foot

5.  Being unforgettable; being fascinating

6.  Strength in numbers

 

HELPING: Mentor

1.  Become One

a.   Reasons for becoming one

b.  How easy it is to be one

c.   Resources

2.  Seek Coaching

a.   Reasons you may need help

b.  How to ask for help

c.   Resources

HELPING: Charity

1.  Why get involved?

2.  Small scale thinking

3.  Big scale involvement

HELPING: Collaborate

1.  Wiki “Incubator” Projects

2.  Joining/starting team projects and movements

 

LOVE: Soul mate

1.  Being yourself

2.  Looking and smelling good

3.  Having great sex; romance and foreplay

4.  Accepting flaws; outside forces like family, friends, opinions

5.  Communication is your glue

6.  Trust is the foundation; commitment is best when implicit

7.  Situation vs. duration (never let the situation mean more than the relationship)

8.  Cultivating goodness and fun; simple gifts and complex designs; daily spices

9.  List fun ideas and realities about romantic love

10.  ALL BELOW ARE ADDED

11.  Friendship is key and comes first

12.  Dating and timing

LOVE: Friends

1.  Listening is the greatest gift

2.  Staying in touch; making encounters count; honoring important events; adventures

3.  Compliments

4.  Discussing emotions; humorous vs. hurtful

5.  Setting and following examples; mutual respect

6.  Dealing with success and failures together

LOVE: Family

1.  Giving and getting respect

2.  Avoiding miscommunication

3.  Harmonious and sympathetic living; physical contact

4.  The value of words and surprises

5.  Being a role model

6.  Apologies

7.  Teaching discipline and praise

LOVE: Industry (Co-workers)

1.  Thank you’s

2.  Being a team player

3.  Building trust and its rewards

4.  Crowd pleasing; honing charisma

5.  Giving due credit

6.  Being a role model; smiling all day; your tone and actions

LOVE: Everyone

1.  Reciprocal respect; contagious loving; compliments beget compliments

2.  Simple, verbal gifts

3.  Power of a smile

4.  Being gentle and kind; more bees with honey

5.  Empathy and understanding others; expecting the unexpected

6.  Always taking the high road and treating people well; swallowing pride

7.  ALL BELOW ARE ADDED

8.  Being authentic

 

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Library structure

 

1. Discover – a. personality    b. talents, strengths and weaknesses c. life purpose

2. Improve – mind, body, spirit

3. Passions – find that passion based on your attributes, life purpose

4. Pursue Success –a. career  b. entrepreneurial  c.Network and collaborate

5. Helping –a.mentor b. charity  c. collaborate

7        Love and Re-discovery – a.soulmate b. family  c. friends  d. co-workers  e.everyone

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24 HEADLINES and BLURBS for the IDU LIBRARY  

(Idu Empowerment Library): Even you have super powers.  Empower yourself.

                            (or)

                               Bringing paradise to you.

                            (or)

                        The life you were supposed to live.  No exceptions.

      Sample #1

      Right here, right now, Idu challenges you to fix everything that sucks about your life.  Quite frankly, it doesn’t matter if you are a close call or a far cry from total happiness.  You’ve already got the answers to all of your questions.  We’re just going to show you how to shake them out.  Get ready to make your dreams come true. 

      Sample #2

      Bored? Lonely? Generally dissatisfied???  Spend the next twenty minutes with us and you are guaranteed to find yourself well on your way to a new kind of high.  All it takes is a pair of working eyeballs and a dream.  You have no excuse not to take a chance at making your life sensational. 

      Sample #3

      We know what you’re thinking.  And you’re wrong.  It’s even easier than you could imagine.  Take the first step and we’re willing to bet that you start feeling good.  It’ll be subtle in the beginning, but soon you’ll be totally blissed out of your mind.  Or thrilled, or stoked, or jazzed, mirthful, contented, satisfied, happy, mellow, all right, chillin’, bueno, fantastico…

      Sample #4

      Something’s always missing in life.  Here’s your chance to fill in the blanks.  Better yet, here’s your chance to fill those blanks with whipped cream and dump a bunch of naked hotties into the fluff.  When you’re done staring, go ahead and dive in. 

(Discover):  How to untangle what makes you tick.

Personality

      Hear what everyone else hears when you speak your mind.  Understand exactly who and what is influencing your voice.  This is pretty much the doormat for your soul, and you want to make sure it screams, “Stay for a while!”

Strengths & Weaknesses

      Nobody’s perfect, right?  Wrong.  You’ve got the perfect blend of mojo and crap inside of you to make a memorable, one of a kind life experience for yourself and everybody around you.  Time to identify your ingredients so that you can start putting the good and the bad to the best possible use.  Even diamonds come from something dirty.

      Purpose

      It shifts shape, it’s a thousand things mashed into one, and you’ve been hunting this unicorn since the day you learned it was worth finding.  Do yourself a favor: take a minute to recognize the footprints behind you.  Your unicorn is actually following you. 

(Improve):  A rocket boost to near perfection.

      Mind

      Every thought, conversation and encounter you have can be turned into brain candy.  Imagine yourself squeezing the most out of life by simply rethinking your approach to everything.  Suddenly, you’re always getting your way.  You’ll find yourself behind the velvet rope, being waited on hand and foot, and all you had to do was think about it.   

      Body

      Not just because you want to be fit.  Not only because it feels good to have energy.  Not entirely because people will start looking at you with eyes that say, “Damn.  Milk did that body good.”  Do it because your body influences the way you think, inspires confidence and manages stress.  Do it because you can.

      Spirit

      Good vibes.  That’s all we’re talking about here.  Being open to the good stuff and sending it back out into the world.  There are dozens of creative ways to stimulate that mysterious force inside of you.  Trust us: if you cultivate your spirit, every day will start to seem like your birthday.   

(Passions): Working and playing to the fullest.

      Work

       Work and Play are cousins, you know.  Most families just haven’t introduced them yet.  People assume they won’t get along because Work usually wears a necktie and Play normally sports dirty sneakers.  But we caught them making small talk at the bus stop the other day.  And guess what?  They both like pancakes for breakfast.  Find the play in work.

      Play

      Some things you know, and some things you have yet to try.  Explore old hobbies and experiment with new opportunities to make the very most of your leisure time.  Amusement is a critical element of your new, soul diet.  Fun was never so much fun.     

(Success):  Two paths towards prosperity.

      Job

      Loving what you do?  As far as we’re concerned, there’s no alternative.  If you are having any doubts about the source of your paycheck, then you better find your running shoes and a pair of sunglasses.  The fast track to a bright future awaits you.

      Entrepreneurial

      Visionaries welcome.  If you get even more excited about writing the rules than following them, let us put you hot on the trail to building your company from scratch.  Being your own boss could be your best decision yet. 

(Helping): Get some.  Give some.  One feels ten times better.

      Mentor

      To a lot of people you are a genius.  Your talent and knowledge are precisely what they are seeking.  We won’t say that if you deprive them that you are being selfish with your wisdom.  But we will say that if you share it, the world may remember you forever.  Be a genius or find one here.

      Charity

      Steal something that you never thought you would have the guts to take: the hearts of those in need.  Really, giving can be as simple as donating a few hours of your time, a couple of coins out of your pocket or the warm clothes you’ve outgrown that you already have boxed up in your closet.  The things that you’ll hardly miss might just be the things that someone else will never forget.  Talk about an easy way to make a difference.

      Collaborate (???) 

(Love): Outdoing your wildest dreams.

      Soul mate

      Introducing our foolproof recipe to a fun-filled, action-packed, intoxicatingly sensual relationship with your companion.  Stimulate, titillate, and hardly wait another minute before you find yourself drowning in the kind of pleasure that only you could prescribe.  It’s not all about sex, either.  Actually, it’s mostly about getting along and respecting each other.  You know, crazy stuff like that.  But we’re pretty sure it’ll make the sex way, way better.

      Family

      Wouldn’t it be a gas if you and every member of your family were, like, totally cool with one another?  Like, next thing you know, Mom doesn’t mind doing you that favor and Dad is all smiles and the siblings are all buddies and the extended family couldn’t embarrass you during a holiday dinner if they tried?  That’ll never happen… unless you sack up and test out our methods.  They’re guaranteed to decrease stress and name-calling.

      Friends

      Sure, a friend is someone with whom you have shared almost everything.  Adventures, embarrassments and underwear, to name a few things.  But even the oldest and truest of friendships can be taken to the next level with a bit of sound advice.  Let us show you how to transform hanging out with your pals into an experience that makes each of you better, stronger and smarter.  You can actually tap into each other’s talents and energy.  Kind of like osmosis at warp speed.

      Co-workers

      Get ready for your new title.  It’ll read something like, “The life of the party, 9 to 5.”  That’s how your colleagues will begin to see you after you apply these helpful suggestions.  Not to mention the fact that your productivity level will go through the roof and your weekdays will start to feel like weekends.  We’ll teach you how to be deliberately decent and become an industry hero.

      Everyone

      Even if you’ve never had the desire to be one of those people who can pacify the most aggressive strangers with a genuine smile, we’re certain you could benefit from smooth sailing through your days with minimal confrontations.  There are a handful of absolutely logical techniques that you can use to understand and appreciate the world of people around you. If you give people a chance, nothing could be more gratifying than the surprising amount of respect and knowledge you will gain.  (THIS ONE IS LAME; NEEDS LOTS OF WORK.)