Users should like our IDU library because it is strong in
these areas:
1. Discover
personality and talents, s&w sections for different stereotypes and
archetypes
2. Mind section for completeness
3. Spirit section for “simple but yet powerful” stuff
4. Our Tact and Tone articles
5. Management Section on leadership, teamwork,
communication, running a lean and mean shoestring operation the hands-on way,
the wiki way etc
6. Strong Marketing, branding and PR section
7. Charity section on mentoring and collaboration
8. Unique view of love on ”everyone” and “soulmate”
Various TESTS IDU refers to other sites
- Personality
test
- Purpose
test
- Job
test or passion test – find that passion/job that fits your 1. and 2.
- Entrepreneur
test- find that business that fits 1. and 2.
- co-worker
test- the kind of people u like to work with and who are optimal for
productivity
- charity
– find that charity, cause, that fits 1. and 2 that is feasible- enough
time, ease of participation, convenient. within ur expertise/talent.
- love test-
soulmate test based on compatibility.
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CHANGES and COMMENTS on Blurbs/Library articles
Love
- Is my
soulmate right for marriage? Is it true love?
The person is right if both enjoy doing small things together,
the little things, and are companions who enjoy the chemistry of walking,
sleeping, eating, small chat together instead of the big pow-wow sexual
attraction, appearance and short term infatuation.
In the end, all infatuations and sexual attraction will die
out and what holds the relationship together for life is the companionship –
doing the small things together.
- Ida
version of rediscovery of love and relationship is NOT just based on a new
empowered you, a “doing” you, or a new successful accomplishing you. It is
NOT just about “you don’t know what love is and who your soul mate is until u love
yourself first”.
It is about rediscovery based upon using your
talent to help others, to help the guy
next door or simply stranger in need , to share your love & expertise to
better the world. It is about recognizing the fact that we are all different
and unique in our own ways but at the same time we are one and the same. It is about loving others, helping others
the same way we love and help ourselves. Until we feel and share our love as one, the
self is never truly fulfilled/complete
and it never truly rediscover oneself and true insight into love and
relationship.
One has to recognized that love
is a selfless energy that encompass all, never partial, -with partial as
incomplete – thus the importance of loving everyone, stranger alike due to the
organic connection between everything in existence. The real nature of someone
who gives is kindness and everyone is kindness/goodness personified; you see and
feel the same vulnerability in all others that you feel within yourself.
Therefore kindness to yourself leads you to kindness towards others. When one
recognized that we are all one and the same, when we give to others, we are
giving to ourselves. One never fully complete/empower oneself until all others
are fully complete and empowered.
So common complaints among lovers
and argument against the above view pt.
“If u love others more than u love
ur soulmate, then that’s not really marriage quality love since it is not
absolute”
The counter argument to that is
until one love others and everyone as a whole, as one, one never quite
completely fulfill his essence of self and therefore never truly know himself
and understand his choice of soulmate, love and relationships.
Couples who understand the above
will never have such complaints.
- Nine
stages of evolution of self.
- pre
high school
- high
school
- college
- job
- marriage
- family
with kids
- success
in life
- helping
others
- retirement
There are usually nine phases in life where you will be
evolving. As u progress, u get better
and more experienced with life and hopefully more perfect. The helping others
part is what truly fulfills u as a
person.
- We
should have a Flirting lines library , break the ice one-liner
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EVERYONE – need an article on
helping. And also not just loving and
helping the guy next door, strangers but active on more national level, global
level. Adoptions, mentoring, funding, health services etc
Co-workers, friends, family – need an article of helping
each other thru common
interest/purpose of helping the world.
DISCOVER
- Talents,
S&W – should encompass 4 areas : personality, character, intellect,
body/appearance.
- Personality - should have articles regarding
different personalities, traits.
And the strength of weaknesses
of each. Personality clashes. Who attracts, who don’t in the areas of love,
friends, career partners.
BODY – I think we should include some of today’s hot
topics like anti-aging, stay young forever, weightloss, eat green, natural food
and natural herbs as remedies for illness. Remember the gnc website as they
have a complete library on herbs
Spirit – I think we should focus
on the big 4 that’s contributes to gd
spirit – love, giving & sharing, charity, creative energy.
Being able to create something based on
one’s passion and share/give/help that something to as many people as possible
to reciprocate love is the ultimate joy and pillar of the universe. - try to apply this sentence to sections in
“purpose”, “spirit” “find that passion based on u” , “entrepreneur” “helping”
“everyone”
HELPING – “collaborate” section on
charity ONLY. Move all non-charity to “connect” in JOB
FIND THAT PASSION BASED ON YOU –
weblink www.click4careercounseling.com
for jobs that fits your personality and intellect
MENTOR – how to be a gd mentor, qualities of a gd mentor
must be included
GET HELP/ADVICE – yahoo answers, allexperts.com, wikihow.com
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I kind of reorg. the mind section below- don’t do anything
as I m still thinking on it
MIND –
NON-EMOTIONAL/ PRODUCTIVITY
memory
analytical ability – judging, observing
logical reasoning
Conceptual ability
creativity, imaginative ability, improv, rap, poetic
instinct based on experience
perpective
iq
stress control
prioritize and organize
focus – excuting swiftly, going with the momentum and flow
EMOTIONS/ATTITUDE (crossover w/ Spirit)
confidence
faith in outcome
security
no worries
motivation
letting go
control
handling negative criticism, giving constructive criticism
avoiding negative influence
making each day count, value, savoring each precious day
speed
adapting, verstility
compromise
sacrifice
paying attention to details -little things
stretching limits- challenge
PERSONALITY/character
honesty
trust
values
passion
be yourself, be genuine
forgive
reliability
procrastination
anger management
pride/ego
integrity
discipline
compassion
ambitious – setting goals
overcoming shyness, don’t be embarrassed
overcoming mood swings, sentiments
controlling your wild side
being opinionated, outspoken, courage to speak up
perseverance, persistence
not being stubborn
being gregarious, social- make friends!
Being humorous- power of humor
Being Tactful, subtle,
slightly ambiguous versus overly direct, overly embarassing
Being content vs greed
Excessive ego versus pride
COMMUNICATION
apologies, admit mistakes
speak with passion
clarity
being fascinating
listening, being sensitive, not assuming, not assumptuous
crowd pleasing
comedy
commonalities
adapting
first impressions
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